Skype me please!
Online dating has become such a huge part of our lives nowadays. It seems rare to find couples who haven’t met via the internet. For a lot of couples though, online dating has come at a price. Enduring a long distance relationship where only the willing few were able to make it on the road to marriage. But for those who did make it, the test was well worth it.
Dating Thai girls abroad
There is something you should remember when dating a girl from another country. For a great deal of the time you will have to go through the trials and tribulations of long distance dating. This even applies after getting married (unless of course you decide to live in the wife’s country). Because of the strict visa laws of the US, UK, Europe, Australia, Canada, NZ etc., your new life might be put on hold for up to 6 months or a year. The theory is that if you love your wife, you can wait. But that apart, (excuse the pun) how do we continue dating from long distances like Thai girls from Chiang Mai for example? The answer is not easy and it takes devotion, resignation and patience even for the strongest willed man. I spoke to Jim Thompson from Alabama, a few months ago about his ordeal of dating and marrying an online Thai bride. He married a beautiful Thai girl several years ago when long distance communication was nigh on impossible, Thai infrastructure wasn’t developed enough for all to have access to the internet and it made life very hard sometimes. But although they had dated for 2 years before they married, love finally overcame, says Jim and Bee. The main thing to watch says Bee is the loneliness gauge as she calls it, “sometimes I went out with my friends and their partners, they were all so lovey-dovey that an unbelievable feeling of loneliness came over me. It got so bad sometimes I really felt like calling our engagement off” says Bee. Another thing they both remarked upon was the jealousy factor. Bee would try to call Jim on an international phone line at 1 am Saturday or Sunday morning just to make sure he was home. Niggling thoughts of jealousy would creep in even if the tv was on and the sound of a girls voice sounded through the phone. Jim not usually being a jealous type also had nasty surprise one day when he called her up only to find a male voice answering. It turned out to be her brother. These are the tiny seeds of envy and jealousy that could easily undo a strong relationship, says Jim. Being totally honest and careful not to create any feelings of suspicion, no matter how insignificant it may seem, is most important in maintaining a stable relationship. “We had a great orderly online dating relationship” recalls Bee, “We had a call session five times a week, where I’d call him twice and he’d call me three times a week, and when skype arrived on the scene about a year later, things got even easier for us. We chatted every day, we ate together, played online games together and even had cyber -sex!” giggles Bee.
Online dating agencies like sweetsingles.com tells us that relationships like these are very common nowadays and with the aid of internet access, more and more people are turning to dating girls online. It’s one of the fastest growing industries and it’s a business that not only helps guys and girls find their true love. It even helps the life-long shy sufferers overcome their fear of dating and meeting new women. And with footnote to that; Thai girls are still the number one most popular lady for online dating.